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Knowing what you want: Simple yet not Easy

When you think you're stuck on the question of How, getting clearer on What you want to have happen may unlock the door.

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“The best thing from our conversation today is that I now have a vivid, many-coloured, multi-layered portrait of the relationship I want - like a puzzle coming together.”

– A coaching client

Knowing what you want is simple, yet not easy.

It sometimes takes 50 questions to get a client’s mind to turn away from problems, hesitations, concerns.

Problems feel compelling, and often comfortingly familiar.

What you’d like instead - even to think of that can take courage.

That bothersome thing that’s been on your mind: What would you want instead?

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Not sure what comes next?

Sometimes the first step is just saying this matters.

A Nesting Call is a gentle conversation to meet you where you are — no fixing, no rushing, just deep listening and space to notice what wants to unfold.

👉 Begin here

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Last Update: May 20, 2025

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