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You've got ideas.
You've got vision and determination.
You know how to follow an idea further than most people are willing or able to.
You can think further than most.
It's one of your strengths.
When something matters, you don't wait to be told what to do.
You learn.
You investigate.
You experiment.
You build.
You find a way.
And because you're unusually capable, people learn that you are someone who can carry things: projects, responsibilities, possibilities.
The awkward conversations.
The ambitious ideas.
The bits nobody else seems willing to touch.
You become a person who creates movement.
And that's a beautiful thing.
But capability has a curious side effect.
The hidden cost of capability
The more capable you are, the easier it becomes to keep doing things the hard way.
You can compensate for a surprising amount. You can think your way through uncertainty. Will your way through resistance. Carry your way through complexity.
You can get a long way like that.
Perhaps further than most.
Which is why many mavericks never stop to ask a peculiar question:
What if life doesn't have to be this effortful?
What if life doesn't have to be this effortful?
Not easier.
Not smaller.
Not less ambitious.
Simply more graceful.
A different kind of luxury
There is a particular kind of luxury that has nothing to do with status.
It isn't about impressing anybody. It isn't about having more than you need. It is about no longer needing to spend energy where energy doesn't need to be spent.
The luxury of a well-designed tool.
The luxury of good shoes.
The luxury of remembering that your intelligence can serve you, too.
The luxury of including you
Most of the people I meet through ByHeart are extraordinarily generous with their intelligence.
They use it to support teams, shape organisations, strengthen communities, develop ideas, solve problems, create opportunities.
Their intelligence is constantly in service to something.
What I wish for them is simple:
That they might include themselves among the recipients.
That they might experience the strange luxury of bringing the same curiosity, care and attention to their own lives that they so readily offer elsewhere.
Not because they are struggling.
But because they are worth including.
Another way to think further
There is another way to think further. Not by thinking harder, or gathering more frameworks, or carrying more. But by allowing thinking to be joined by other forms of intelligence.
The kind that emerge in spacious conversation.
The kind that appear when there is no need to convince, perform or drag anyone along.
The kind that arrive when you are finally free to explore what is true, rather than what is merely urgent.
That, to me, is one of life's great lesser-known luxuries.
And for the run-off-their-feet mavericks reading this, perhaps the invitation is simply this:
Before your feet start falling off, consider trying on a pair of shoes.
Before your feet start falling off, consider trying on a pair of shoes.

A note for fellow mavericks
If you've spent years using your intelligence in service of ideas, organisations and other people, you may find yourself curious about what happens when some of that intelligence is allowed to serve you.
That's the spirit in which I offer Tea with Margarita.
Not as a solution or an intervention.
Simply as a spacious conversation in which you don't have to carry the whole inquiry alone.
Wondering whether this is for you?
Not every maverick needs a deeper conversation.
But if this piece has left you with a sense of recognition — or curiosity about what becomes possible when your intelligence is allowed to serve you, too — a Nesting Call is a gentle place to begin.
We'll explore where you are, what you're carrying, and whether one of the ByHeart offerings might be a good fit.
No pressure. No performance.
Just an honest conversation about what comes next.


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